The advise given is well taken and appreciated.
I've been around guns most of my life, including lots of squirrel hunting with a 12 gauge single shot 'volunteer' shotgun; the old Volunteer kicked plenty hard against my 13 year old frame, but in the woods I never felt it. Other 12 gauge guns followed for hunting and 'turkey shoots', and I never gave recoil a thought. Qualifying in Army basic training was worrisome because of tales about the .30-06's recoil; as it turned out the recoil was fine, but closing the bolt was mighty hard on a slow-moving thumb.
A fair number of comments about .45-70 recoil are sprinkled about, so there is some level of mystique attached to this caliber. I'm not skeered about getting a bloody nose or a black eye, but I am curious about what to expect. My curiosity, like some others, even goes to ammo selection.
My first .45-70 arrives tomorrow, so I need ammo. I ordered a generous supply of Remington Express 300 grain today thinking it was a good intro load to break me in with. After the order, folks were advising here that 405 grain is "milder". My shooting will be to punch paper, so there won't be a critter in the sights to blank out the recoil. My interest is the enjoyment of a great shooting big bore rifle while minimizing the discomfort. I'll try to change the ammo order first thing tomorrow unless there really isn't a significant difference in recoil between 300 and 405.
I know this question is a bit like grading hot sauce, but anyone who has shot 300 gr and 405 gr probably formed an opinion about the difference in recoil. Please help this "girlyman" find the most pleasant round to shoot.