No offense to the OP meant here. But unless the only rifles he ever fired prior to the .35 Rem were the .223 and/or .243, I simply don't understand.
Yes, recoil is subjective, and a lot depends on the shooter and what he/she expects or experiences. The older plastic buttplates don't help, but I have a double in 9.3x74R that has that.
I shot a bit of .22 and moved up to 12ga with slugs for deer. So, it's all relavent to what you've experienced. I regularly shoot .338mag, .356, .358, .35 Whelen, .375 Win, 9.3x62, 45-70 and previously mentioned 9.3x74R. I don't feel any of them abusive or difficult.
However, my 12ga A-Bolt shooting 385gr Sabots @ 1900 and my BLR with 350s @ 2100 remind me to use proper technique.
Everything is relative. Shoot enough and understand that hearing protection is very important and be sure to use proper technique. When you fire a CF rifle that's spitting a 200gr bullet fast enough to cleanly kill deer sized game at 225yds, there's gonna be some push.
Prepare, expect it and deal with it. Remember, you'll never, ever feel the recoil in the field when shooting that 150" 10. 😁