I'm just curious about this subject and how other people have dealt with it. Why do so many people hate their exes? I don't hate any of mine except maybe one and I don't really hate him, he just sort of makes me sick because of what a liar he was. His current wife is a gorilla who smokes and drinks like a pig and periodically threatens me even though it's been seven years. They live in my neighborhood, and I see them in the grocery store buying Hamburger Helper and Marlboros and looking miserable as all hell. I refuse to speak to either one of them.